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Boundaries, Self-Worth & Protection

You Were Holding It Together So No One Would See It Was Falling Apart

For the composed, high-functioning person quietly collapsing behind the performance.

8 weeks Intermediate 0 lessons Self-paced

What You'll Learn

  • Recognize the cost of the composure
  • Begin telling the truth in small, safe places
  • Withdraw from what you're holding up alone
  • Grieve the version of you that performed
  • Build a life you don't have to hold together

About You Were Holding It Together So No One Would See It Was Falling Apart

The exhaustion of maintaining an appearance that no longer matches your interior. This course helps you set it down — safely.

Who this is for

This course is for adults ready to do gentle, structured emotional work. No prior experience needed — just curiosity and a willingness to feel.

How it works

Self-paced video lessons, downloadable worksheets, and a private space to journal your reflections. Your progress is saved as you go.

What you’ll need

20–30 minutes per week, a quiet space, and something to write with. That’s it.

Your Instructor

Tameka Lancaster, LCSW

Tameka Lancaster, LCSW

Founder · Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Licensed clinician with 15+ years of clinical experience helping individuals and couples navigate emotional healing, trauma recovery, and relational repair.

  • LCSW — Licensed Clinical Social Worker
  • ASWB ACE Approved Provider
  • 15+ Years Clinical Experience