They Were Drawn to Your Light — Until It Lit Up Their Shadow
For those who attracted admiration and then attack — a course on being wanted for the wrong reasons.
What You'll Learn
- Recognize the seen-but-not-respected pattern
- Distinguish admiration from love
- Hold your light without dimming for their comfort
- Grieve the relationships that turned envious
- Attract people who can bear your fullness
About They Were Drawn to Your Light — Until It Lit Up Their Shadow
The specific ache of being loved for the parts of you that expose someone else's wound. We name it here, and heal it.
Who this is for
This course is for adults ready to do gentle, structured emotional work. No prior experience needed — just curiosity and a willingness to feel.
How it works
Self-paced video lessons, downloadable worksheets, and a private space to journal your reflections. Your progress is saved as you go.
What you’ll need
20–30 minutes per week, a quiet space, and something to write with. That’s it.
Your Instructor
Tameka Lancaster, LCSW
Founder · Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Licensed clinician with 15+ years of clinical experience helping individuals and couples navigate emotional healing, trauma recovery, and relational repair.
- LCSW — Licensed Clinical Social Worker
- ASWB ACE Approved Provider
- 15+ Years Clinical Experience